First Sex: How to Do It Right

“Sex should be the highest stage of communication and not a substitution of communication”. Marianne Williamson

Kisses and passionate embraces sooner or later lead to sex. But many teens are not ready for it and did not know how to behave during the first sex. In this article, we’ll tell you what you can and cannot do during your first time.

First sex for girls

The first and perhaps the most interesting question all girls ask when it comes to the depriving of virginity is “Does it hurt?” There is no clear answer, because someone may have the first sex without pain, while someone will fell a certain degree of discomfort. But in general, you shouldn’t worry much about the pain because it is not so strong.

During the first sexual experience you should take care of safety. Inexperienced sexual partners may inadvertently turn into young parents. So make sure you have a condom within a reach of your hand.

Perhaps the most important advice is to prepare morally for the loss of virginity and try to calm down. The girl feels less pain, if she is calm and relaxed. If the muscles of the vagina are highly compressed, your partner will encounter more difficulties to implement his plan provoking an excessive tension and pain. So try to relax completely.

“If sex is a natural activity, why there are so many sex manuals?” Betty Midler

The surrounding environment should comply to what happens with you. This is especially important for the girls. You should take care of lubrication during the first sexual experience. Lubrication helps the penis to penetrate the vagina with less effort.

The blood from the vagina is a common phenomenon during the first sex, so get ready to it. Of course, the amount of blood is unsubstantial in most cases and someone may have no blood at all.

If you are mentally not ready for the first sex, it’s better to postpone it because nervous condition may complicate everything greatly. Choose a favorite and trusted partner, the one with whom you can stay together for a long time. Ideally, women should have only one sexual partner, a greater number of partners may affect negatively your health as well as the health of your future children.

First sex for a guy

First sex is a great event for any guy, so it’s necessary to prepare for it properly
First and foremost, the guys should get ready to it mentally. The partner must be chosen very responsibly too. The girl should be a loved one and you have to understand each other. This is a very important thing during the first sex.
Also, take care of a condom and never neglect it. If a girl is a virgin too, buy a special lubricant, it will help both of you.

“Sex is a matter of taste. It’s bad for one and good for two”

Major fears the guys experience before the first sex concern their erection and time of the very sexual act. The answer on the first question is simple: it’s enough to be mentally prepared to sex and there are no problems. The second question is called a premature ejaculation and there are some details here. Many websites recommend masturbate before the first sexual intercourse. But it can become a problem rather than a solution, because at the crucial moment you may experience some problems with erection.

Young guys should realize that the first sex is never long and of a high quality, so it’s better to warn your partner about it in advance. If both partners understand this is the first time, the tension will be much smaller and therefore everything will happen much easier.

“Sex is an emotion in motion.” Mae West

Ideally, your partner should be close to you in terms of relationships. Completely undress before your first sex and start by kissing, hugging and touching. Thus, the tension will almost disappear and you can start it all comfortably.

The easy way to extend the first sex is to use a condom with thick walls. It dulls sensations and it may well contribute to the prolongation of the sexual intercourse.

Finally, the main advice: do not be afraid!!!

7 Things Guys and Girls Shouldn’t Do during Their First Date

“- I want a memorable story about our first date, as all people have! We ate salad and had sex during our first date!
– You see, you remembered… “

Today we’d like to talk about why two people having liked each other decide never to meet again after the first date. What precisely happens that the sympathy that arose between them suddenly disappears?

Both man and woman do not behave deliberately in a special way to make all the sympathy evaporate. Of course, such sad outcome is a result of ignorance. Let’s try to understand why it happens.

“Not all women are late for a date. Some do not come at all”

Seven things a girl shouldn’t do during a first date

1. The girl should remember that she shouldn’t do anything to anyone during the first date.

2. Girls don’t bring flowers to the first date.

3. If you are late for another date, do not show it too openly.

4. Don’t mix alcohol drinks.

5. Do not comb your hair on the backseat of his car. It is long to explain, just believe and do not do it.

6. Don’t agree immediately no matter what you’ve been offered. Even if he offered you marry him, don’t agree right now. Otherwise, you risk create an image of the available girl which is ready to everything.

7. You should not start the score of broken years during the first date.

“If a girl came to the first date on time this means she has two dates today.”

Seven things a guy shouldn’t do during a first date

1. Children. Do not make them on your first date.

2. It is not necessary to ask the girl what kind of day (good or bad) she had today.

3. Don’t ask a girl’s name on a first date. You should already know it by that time.

4. It is unacceptable to smoke on the girl’s face.

5. Do not bring your mom to the first date. Better let her observe you from around the corner of the building.

6. Do not call her with tender words like “baby”, “dear”, “my sweet”, etc.

7. A young man shouldn’t cry during the first date.

“- You look so attractive! Where are you going?
– I have a date!
– And why without flowers?
– Well… I’ve got daisies on my panties!”

St. Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Today is Valentine’s Day. Or, as men like to call it, extortion day.

Gifts for a guy on Valentine’s Day

Of course, you can present your boyfriend a stylish leather belt, purse or umbrella. But he is likely to receive all this from his mother, sister, aunt or grandmother. So it is better to buy your boyfriend any shorts with a funny picture or inscription. And if you are too shy to visit men’s underwear shops, just order the pants via the internet. All you need is to find out the required size.

“On February 14 there will be a day when all women divide into two categories: the first will roar and thump, while the other will take photos of their bouquets and post them on Facebook”

Gifts for a husband on Valentine’s Day

After the marriage, the majority of men stop caring about their appearance in a proper way. As a result, they are proud of their beer belly and visit the hairdresser only when the fringe begins to climb into their eyes. So St. Valentine’s Day is an excellent opportunity to remind your husband that you fell in love with him when he was a little bit different. Present your husband a certificate for attending a fitness center or nice running shoes. A certificate for any procedure in the beauty salon would be a good option too.

Gifts for a girl on Valentine’s Day

Apart from flowers, the best gift is perfumes. Of course, you can always choose the wrong aroma, but still it will be better than to purchase, for example, the wrong jewelry. If a girl does not like a gold chain, she will hide it into the far end of the box. And if she does not like the aroma, she will find it a practical application using as the air freshener in the toilet. The best option for you is to find out the name of your girlfriend’s favorite perfumes and buy her an appropriate bottle.

Gifts for a wife on Valentine’s Day

“- I want you to present me flowers every day, not just on February 14th.
– And I want you to be a witch only for Halloween, not every day. “

Choosing a gift for your wife, it is necessary to focus on the one which will let her know she is not a housewife but still desirable lover for you. The worst gifts for your wife on February 14th are a pan, a mop and anti-cellulite massage session. The best ones are jewelry, perfumes and underwear. However, be careful even with these items because the fact that you have lived in a marriage for over 10 years, does not mean that you’re a perfect judge of likes and dislikes of your beloved wife.

Gifts for parents on Valentine’s Day


“If you do not know whom to give a heart on February 14th, give it to your mother, she is really worth it.”

Although February 14th is a romantic holiday, grateful and loving children often congratulate their parents this day. When we grow up and begin living separately, we see our parents less and less, sometimes a couple of times a year, mostly on Easter and Christmas. Therefore, it is better to present your parents a memorable gift. For example, a huge cake and a memorable photo session with it. A ticket to a good resort is an acceptable option too. But the best gift for parents on St. Valentine’s Day are the news they will become grandparents soon.

9 Powerful Life Hacks to Overcome Procrastination and Find Yourself One Step Closer to Your Dream

People start to master the art of procrastination in their early childhood and over the years these skills grow reaching an unprecedented level. Each of us understands that the skills of deliberate forgetting of doing the right things complicate our lives greatly. Some really important things are done too late, while the others are never done at all. Similarly, numerous creative plans remain at the planning stage and never come to life. People always find excuses why it’s impossible to do something right now. Although the truth is obvious: laziness combined with a long-standing habit of hoping that the problem will resolve itself, contribute largely to the situation. Life is like running in circles and behind a pile of postponed actions it’s unclear where you are at the moment and where you should go. Gradually you come to a sad conclusion that procrastination has turned into a significant problem that must be solved immediately, because it exerts a substantial impact on the quality of your life.

 

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Internet Outages: Anything to Worry About?

Many of us cannot even think seriously about a possibility of staying without the Internet for even a few hours. However, what may happen if the Internet stops working for some reason?

Nowadays, a life of many people makes them staying online permanently, so the question of what will happen if the Internet suddenly disappears becomes particularly acute. Well, the consequences may be quite unexpected.

In 1995, less than one percent of the world’s population had access to the global network. Today, 20 years later, more than 3.5 billion people enjoy a constant access to the Internet. This is almost half of the world’s population. Many people cannot imagine their existence without a worldwide network.

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Everyone Can Start a New Life. A Breathtaking Story of Khalil Rafati

In 2003 the American medics desperately tried to save the life of Khalil Rafati who was dying after the ninth overdose. Using the defibrillator they managed to save his life.

At that time he was 33 years old and lived on the Los Angeles streets. He was heavily dependent on cocaine, weighed 49 kg and his skin was all covered with sores.

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Consider Yourself a Smart One? Get Ready to Have Less Sex!

In 2013 LoveHoney, the UK company selling sex toys via the Internet, presented a survey that revealed the link between the level of IQ and sex drive.

The research was conducted among the students of Oxford, Manchester and Cambridge universities that are considered the top educational establishments in the UK. LoveHoney presumed that one has to be pretty clever to study at one of these elite universities and immediately correlated the high IQ level with the high interest in sex. Such approach seems enough controversial anyway but it provoked a wave of public discussion in which even the students of the aforementioned universities participated. Alice Little, a former student of the Cambridge university, put forward the opinion that the results of the survey are credible in a certain regard. She admitted that sex in general and sex toys in particular are a perfect way to get rid of stress imposed by the everyday challenges of studying at elite universities. It is ridiculous to think the students aren’t aware of this fact.

 

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7 Types of Men to Have a Bad Sex With

Have you ever wondered why some men are able to please you with a good sex, while the others leave so terrible memories that you want to forget them as soon as possible? Unfortunately, the number of inexperienced lovers is far surpassing the number of the really skillful ones. So it’s better to determine at once whether the man is worthy to have sex with. We prepared a ranking of 7 types of guys you should better avoid, if you don’t want to get disappointed after everything is over.

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